Your dream house (1)

2020-08-31
2 Corinthians 5:1 NIV

Few things in life compare to the excitement of moving into your dream house. But if you’re a redeemed child of God, here’s the score: No matter how beautiful your dream house on earth may be, it’s nothing compared to the one you will have in eter¬nity. That’s why Jesus said, “In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you” (John 14:2 NKJV). When it comes to the house we want to live in, certain questions arise. First, what’s the price? Answer: More than you could ever afford! In order to redeem you and take you to heaven, God gave “his only begotten Son” (John 3:16 KJV). Nobody in heaven will ever say, “Look what Jesus and I accomplished.” That would make you a co-redeemer with Christ. It would be an insult to the cross. You’d be guilty of a level of pride that would make it impossible for you to live there. Hymnist Horatius Bonar wrote, “Upon a life I have not lived, upon a death I did not die; Another’s life; another’s death, I stake my whole eternity.” The Bible speaks of “laboring” and “working” for God, but don’t get it mixed up. You don’t work to be saved; you work because you are saved. You don’t labor for your redemption; you labor for your reward. That’s so “God can point to us in all future ages as examples of the incredible wealth of his grace and kindness toward us” (Ephesians 2:7 NLT).

Soul food: Amos 1:1-5:17; Luke 19:1-10; Ps 103:1-12; Prov 19:12-16

How to negotiate well (2)

2020-08-30
1 Chronicles 29:12 NKJV

To negotiate well, you should do these three things: (1) Talk to God before you talk to others. Involve Him in all your decisions. The Bible says, “Both riches and honour come from You, and You reign over all. In Your hand is power and might; in Your hand it is to make great and to give strength to all.” “Also, every man to whom God has given riches and possessions, and the power to enjoy them and to accept his appointed lot and to rejoice in his toil – this is the gift of God [to him]” (Ecclesiastes 5:19 AMPC). If God can negotiate the price of our salvation at the cross, don’t you think He’s qualified to help you negotiate successfully in business? (2) Think long-term. When someone feels “burned” in their business dealings with you, you may make a sale but you’ll lose a repeat customer. Billionaire Sam Walton said he rarely invested in a company because of where it would be in eighteen months. Instead he invested in companies that would still be successful ten years down the road. You may be irreplaceable today – but you won’t always be. And if you pressure your boss for a raise by threatening to quit, your short-term gain may result in long-term loss. (3) Don’t be pressured into anything. Run from the salesperson who insists, “This is the last day of this sale!” Generally speaking, when you return a month later they’ll still deal! In many instances they need your purchase more than you need their product. Your opinion deserves to be heard and respected. Just make sure it’s at the right time, in the right atmosphere, and with the right attitude.

Soul food: Dan 1:1-20; Dan 6:1-28

How to negotiate well (1)

2020-08-29
Ecclesiastes 3:1 NKJV

In order to negotiate well, it helps to understand what’s happening on both sides of the table. People seldom buy a product for the reason you want to sell it. If you show more interest in making a profit than meeting their need, you’ll fail. So here are a few things to keep in mind when negotiating with someone: (1) The right attitude. Nobody likes being taken for granted, coerced, and pressured. (2) The cost involved for others. There’s a world of difference between negotiating with someone who has so much money that whatever the cost they can afford it, and someone who is sacrificing because they really need your product. If you want a long-term customer rather than a short-term sale, practice the Golden Rule: “Whatever you want others to do for you, do for them” (See Matthew 7:12). (3) The proper timing. Solomon tells us there’s “a time to gain, and a time to lose” (Ecclesiastes 3:6 NKJV). Whether you’re asking for a raise or trying to sell a product to a customer, timing is all-important. When someone is hungry, lonely, angry, tired, stressed, or in a crisis, you risk losing out, whereas if you’d waited for the right time, chances are you’d have won. Does God really care about stuff like that? Yes. “God cares about honesty in the workplace; your business is his business” (Proverbs 16:11 MSG). As a follower of Christ, you want both sides to walk away feeling they were treated fairly.

Soul food: Lam 3:40-5:22; Luke 18:31-43; Ps 84; Prov 19:11

Stop!

2020-08-28
Luke 18:40 NLT

Is there room in your schedule for interruptions? One author writes: “Jesus stopped when people needed help. He saw interruptions as opportunities to show God’s love. Woe to those who are so busy saving the world that they ignore the perceived interruptions of those in need. Like the Good Samaritan, we should be ready to stop for someone who’s hurting. ‘Whoever…sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart…how does the love of God abide in him?’ (1 John 3:17 NKJV). When Jesus acted out of love, people recognized ‘God…at work among them’ (Luke 7:16 MSG).” Chuck Swindoll writes: “The One who said, ‘Be still, and know that I am God’ (Psalm 46:10) must hurt when He witnesses our frantic, compulsive, agitated motions. In place of a quiet, responsive spirit, we offer Him an inner washing machine – churning with anxiety…activity…resentment and impatience. But you can change. Here’s how. Admit it. Acknowledge that you’re too busy and something must be done – NOW. I did that recently, and through tears my family and I cleared some bridges the thorns had overgrown. Stop it. Starting today, refuse every activity that isn’t absolutely necessary. Sound ruthless? So is the clock. So is your health…Quit feeling so important. They’ll find somebody else to sit on the committee…or they’ll wise up and adopt a better plan. Maintain it. It is easy to start fast and fade quickly. Paul told the Galatians, ‘You were running…well. Who…held you back from following the truth? It certainly isn’t God…he is the one who called you to freedom’ (Galatians 5:7-8 NLT). Share it. Once you start gleaning the benefits from reordering your priorities…tell other ‘activity-addicts.’ They’d love to stop – if they only knew how.”

Soul food: Lam 1:1-3:39; Luke 18:18-30; Ps 119:169-176; Prov 19:9-10

Praying according to God’s will

2020-08-27
James 4:3 NIV

When you pray for the salvation of a loved one, you never have to wonder if it’s God’s will. His will is clearly spelled out in Scripture: “God…wants all people to be saved and come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:3-4 NIV). However, when it comes to praying for things that aren’t clearly promised in Scripture, you should say, “If it be Thy will.” Why? Because the Bible says, “When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives.” Sometimes we have a hard time accepting this truth because we’re convinced our petitions are justified. But unless your heart is pure toward God and your will is lined up with His, your motives for asking can be tainted by self-interest. John says: “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears – whatever we ask – we know…we have what we ask of him” (1 John 5:14-15 NIV). When you pray for something you’re not sure is in keeping with the mind of God, you should pray, “If it be Thy will.” This doesn’t mean you’re weak in faith when you say, “Lord, I want this thing – if it’s Your will, fits in with Your plan, is Your best for me, and it’s in Your timing.” Paul says, “We can see and understand only a little about God now” (1 Corinthians 13:12 TLB). We see only a partial picture, but God has complete knowledge of the situation from beginning to end. So pray in faith, and trust God for the right results.

Soul food: Gal 4-6; Luke 18:1-17; Ps 119:161-168; Prov 19:3-8

Love them for who they are

2020-08-26
1 Corinthians 13:8 NKJV

The words of a popular song go, “I love you for a hundred thousand reasons, but most of all I love you ’cause you’re you.” There’s great truth in that song, particularly when it comes to children. A Christian psychologist writes: “When the birth of a first child is imminent, the parents pray that he will be normal – that is, average. But from that moment on, average will not be good enough for them. Their child must excel. He must succeed. He must triumph. He must be the first of his age to walk or talk or ride a tricycle. He must earn a stunning report card and amaze his teachers with his wit and wisdom. He must star in little league, and later be quarterback or senior class president. His sister must be the cheerleader or soloist or the homecoming queen. Throughout the formative years, some parents give their children the same message day after day: ‘We’re counting on you to do something fantastic. Don’t disappoint us.’ Unfortunately, exceptional children are just that – exceptions. Seldom does a five-year-old memorize the King James Bible, or play chess blindfolded, or compose symphonies. The vast majority of our children are not dazzlingly brilliant. They’re just plain kids, with an oversized need to be loved and accepted as they are. Most parents have average kids. To expect more sets the stage for considerable disappointment for parents, and puts unrealistic pressure on the younger generation.” Now let’s recall the song: “Most of all I love you ’cause you’re you.” If you take that message to heart, one day your children will rise up and call you “blessed” (See Proverbs 31:28).

Soul food: Gal 1-3; Luke 17:20-37; Ps 119:145-160; Prov 19:1-2