Be realistic (2)
2021-01-28Proverbs 22:3 NLT
Here are three things realistic thinking can do for us:
1) It helps to give us a sense of security. When we’ve thought through the worst that can happen and developed contingency plans to meet it, we can feel more confident and secure. It’s reassuring to know that we’re prepared. Disappointment is the difference between our expectations and reality. Thinking realistically minimises the difference between the two.
2) It gives us credibility. People who are continually surprised by things that go wrong soon lose their credibility. It shows that they’ve not planned or thought things through properly. But people who think realistically about what could happen, and plan accordingly, put themselves in a strong position, which encourages others to have confidence in them. So before we ask anyone else to be part of our projects, ideas, or visions, we need to ask ourselves: a) Is it possible? b) Have I identified and explained the pros and cons of achieving it? c) Do I have a solid foundation to build on?
3) It helps us to make an idea useable and workable. When we have an idea that we’re really enthusiastic about, we can rely too much on what we wish or think is happening, rather than what’s actually happening, so our ideas don’t have the results or the success we intend. Ideas and plans need to be built on solid foundations, and thinking realistically helps provide them. Solomon put it this way: ‘A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences.’ So before we get too carried away by new project or idea, let’s think realistically about the steps we need to take.